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About the Golden Carrot


Casey leads Alex on Buck while Hava looks on...
 
Casey conversing with Cuervo
I am Casey O'Connor, founder and chief cook/bottle washer of the Golden Carrot and its horses. I am a legal secretary/paralegal/word processor by trade, with a love for horses that goes back to childhood. My family was too poor for me to spend much time with horses when I was a kid, but I baby-sat and did ironing to earn money, and then begged my Dad for a ride to the local stable. I mostly just sat on a tired old campaigner who walked me directly to the first patch of grass. For me it was heaven!
 
At age 21, I was given a 16 year old pony named Bobby Sox, who is the inspiration for the Golden Carrot. I thought he was too old; I thought he was too small (13.3 hands); I thought there wouldn't be much I could do with him. Boy was I wrong! Bobby Sox did it all, and taught me everything I know about horses. He was smart, strong, tricky and kind. I lost my darling Bobby at age 42. Please read his story. Little Erin Lyons rode Bobby in his last lesson in 1999, and my heart swelled with pride, as I know his did.
 
He was the best! Bobby Sox taught me that horses don't necessarily want to stand around eating all day. While the Golden Carrot offers horses the opportunity to be part of a herd (some for the first time since they were foals) allowing them to be horses in a more natural way, it also offers them light work, because I cannot forget how much I enjoyed being around them when I was small. I believe that most kids, when they finally get a horse, get someone like Bobby Sox and the other Golden Carrot horses - older, with years of training and seasoning, some with disabilities such as arthritis, ringbone, navicular, bowed tendons and the like. Just like myself they are still useful, just a little creaky and in need of additional attention such as warming up before and cooling down after exercise; special feed requirements; knowledge of pain medications, etc.
 
A lot of kids have shown me that I was right - the smiles on their faces as they do the chores, ride and feed tons of carrots to the horses will warm your hearts - the bright eyes and proud carriage of horses like Bobby Sox and Zayler carrying a small rider will convince you they WANT to do this.
 
Since this site began, both Bobby Sox and Zayler have passed away.  Both were giving children lessons into their latest years - maybe only photo opportunities, leadline and the smallest kids, but it was work they could do and enjoy.
 
I am also a certified Equine Massage Therapist. With the older and disabled horses living at TGC, this comes in mighty handy. If you have a horse that might benefit from massage, give a call, as the money I earn giving equine massage goes directly to The Golden Carrot horses.
 
I would be happy to offer the services of TGC horses in a therapeutic riding program, and am working toward that goal. If you know of handicapped or disabled people who have an interest in learning to ride, I will be happy to work with you to provide a safe therapeutic and enjoyable experience.
 
When I was 35 I received formal riding instruction at the Portuguese Bend Riding Club in Palos Verdes, California. My instructor, John Garvey, taught me how horses think, how to ride and how to instruct. I did give beginning riding lessons at PBRC. I read a great deal to fill the gaps of my horse education and a list of the books I have found useful over the years can be found below. Finally, over the past 13 years, the horses of The Golden Carrot have themselves given me an irreplaceable education about horses.
 
Here's a wonderful tribute to horses - my inspiration in a nutshell....
To have a horse in your life is a gift. In the matter of a few short years, a horse can teach a young girl courage, if she chooses to grab mane and hang on for dear life. Even the smallest of ponies is mightier than the tallest of girls. To conquer the fear of falling off, having one's toes crushed, or being publicly humiliated at a horse show is an admirable feat for any child. For that, we can be grateful.
Horses teach us responsibility. Unlike a bicycle or a computer, a horse needs regular care and most of it requires that you get dirty and smelly and up off the couch. Choosing to leave your cozy kitchen to break the crust of ice off the water buckets is to choose responsibility. When our horses dip their noses and drink heartily; we know we've made the right choice.
Learning to care for a horse is both an art and a science. Some are easy keepers, requiring little more than regular turn-out, a flake of hay, and a trough of clean water. Others will test you - you'll struggle to keep them from being too fat or too thin. You'll have their feet shod regularly only to find shoes gone missing. Some are so accident-prone you'll swear they're intentionally finding new ways to injure themselves.
If you weren't raised with horses, you can't know that they have unique personalities. You'd expect this from dogs, but horses? Indeed, there are clever horses, grumpy horses, and even horses with a sense of humor. Those prone to humor will test you by finding new ways to escape from the barn when you least expect it.
Horses can be timid or brave, lazy or athletic, obstinate or willing. You will hit it off with some horses and others will elude you altogether. There are as many "types" of horses as there are people - which makes the whole partnership thing all the more interesting.
If you've never ridden a horse, you probably assume it's a simple thing you can learn in a weekend. You can, in fact, learn the basics on a Sunday, but to truly ride well takes a lifetime. Working with a living being is far more complex than turning a key in the ignition and putting the car or tractor in "drive."
In addition to listening to your instructor, your horse will have a few things to say to you as well. On a good day, he'll be happy to go along with the program and tolerate your mistakes; on a bad day, you'll swear he's trying to kill you. Perhaps he's naughty or perhaps he's fed up with how slowly you're learning his language. Regardless, the horse will have an opinion. He may choose to challenge you (which can ultimately make you a better rider) or he may carefully carry you over fences - if it suits him. It all depends on the partnership - and partnership is what it's all about.
If you face your fears, swallow your pride, and are willing to work at it, you'll learn lessons in courage, commitment, and compassion in addition to basic survival skills. You'll discover just how hard you're willing to work toward a goal, how little you know, and how much you have to learn.
And, while some people think the horse "does all the work", you'll be challenged physically as well as mentally. Your horse may humble you completely. Or, you may find that sitting on his back is the closest you'll get to heaven.
You can choose to intimidate your horse, but do you really want to? The results may come more quickly, but will your work ever be as graceful as that gained through trust? The best partners choose to listen, as well as to tell. When it works, we experience a sweet sense of accomplishment brought about by smarts, hard work, and mutual understanding between horse and rider. These are the days when you know with absolute certainty that your horse is enjoying his work.
If we make it to adulthood with horses still in our lives, most of us have to squeeze riding into our oversaturated schedules; balancing our need for things equine with those of our households and employers. There is never enough time to ride, or to ride as well as we'd like. Hours in the barn are stolen pleasures.
If it is in your blood to love horses, you share your life with them. Our horses know our secrets; we braid our tears into their manes and whisper our hopes into their ears. A barn is a sanctuary in an unsettled world, a sheltered place where life's true priorities are clear: a warm place to sleep, someone who loves us, and the luxury of regular meals. Some of us need these reminders.
When you step back, it's not just about horses - it's about love, life, and learning. On any given day, a friend is celebrating the birth of a foal, a blue ribbon, or recovery from an illness. That same day, there is also loss: a broken limb, a case of colic, a decision to sustain a life or end it gently. As horse people, we share the accelerated life cycle of horses: the hurried rush of life, love, loss, and death that caring for these animals brings us. When our partners pass, it is more than a moment of sorrow.
We mark our loss with words of gratitude for the ways our lives have been blessed. Our memories are of joy, awe, and wonder. Absolute union. We honor our horses for their brave hearts, courage, and willingness to give.
To those outside our circle, it must seem strange. To see us in our muddy boots, who would guess such poetry lives in our hearts? We celebrate our companions with praise worthy of heroes. Indeed, horses have the hearts of warriors and often carry us into and out of fields of battle.
Listen to stories of that once-in-a-lifetime horse; of journeys made and challenges met. The best of horses rise to the challenges we set before them, asking little in return.
Those who know them understand how fully a horse can hold a human heart. Together, we share the pain of sudden loss and the lingering taste of long-term illness. We shoulder the burden of deciding when or whether to end the life of a true companion.
In the end, we're not certain if we are entrusted to our horses or our horses to us. Does it matter? We're grateful to have the horse in the first place.
- Author Unknown -
Please feel free to email me!
Sincerely,
Casey O' Connor
cocarrot@earthlink.net

Reading List
There is always more to know - keep learning!
Centered Riding, by Sally Swift
Centered Riding 2, by Sally Swift
Physical Therapy and Massage for the Horse, Jean-Marie Denoix and Jean-Pierre Pailloux
The Lame Horse, Causes, Symptoms & Treatment, Dr. James R. Rooney
The Tellington TTouch, Linda Tellington-Jones with Sybil Taylor
Amateur Horseman's Theory and Practical Textbook, Margaret Clarke
Basic Horsemanship, English and Western, Eleanor F. Prince and Gaydel M. Collier
Hands-On Senior Horse Care, Karen E.N. Hayes, DVM and Sue Copeland
Understanding The Older Horse, Robert E. Holand, DVM
Horses are Made to be Horses, Franz Mairinger
Horse Care Tips from A-Z, Equus Reference guide
Investigating Lameness Equus Stable Reference guide
There are No Problem Horses, only problem riders (Mary Twelveponies)
Horse Structure and Movement, Smythe & Goody, revised by Peter Gray MVB MRCVS